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33 years old and single

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The dilemma After years of doing jobs I hated, I finally got my dream job working outside somewhere beautiful.

I am 33 and have always been independent, into music, travel and lots of hobbies.

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Relationships were never my priority, especially as my parents had a very unhappy marriage. I have tried internet dating and there is nobody on there I am attracted to. Few of us celebrate good fortune — no sooner do we get what we want than we budge our parameters that bit further so we can revert to our more familiar sense of dissatisfaction.

But perhaps the motliest part...

In pursuit of that elusive sense of gratitude for what, on good days, I recognise to be a pretty brimful cup, let me share my weird little tradition. Our cultural embrace of conspicuous consumption means we feel eternally shortchanged, convinced that one more thing or person will lead to happiness.

No it's not. This question...

Whether it was the patter of tiny feet, a move to the country or a meaty job I could get my teeth into, much of what I secretly longed for has eventually, in circuitous ways and over extended periods, come to pass.

Writing down my desires helped to take them out of my hands and, more importantly, my head.

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Committing my hopes to paper and describing 33 years old and single dreams helped me to work out priorities, to feel thankful for what I have achieved, and to focus on what I want to do next. So imagine the partner you wish for, place him in a tableau that encapsulates your dreams, and commit him to a page in your notebook.

Then stuff him and your imagined world where contentment reigns, in a drawer or box.

They'll all break up soon,”...

Giving oxygen to your desires is important, and this tradition will help you to keep track of them as they start to manifest in your real life, too. It was a healthy choice. It also gives solid ground on which to build a future together.

Dear Heart to Heart, I...

Let me know when he does. If you have a dilemma, send a brief email to mariella.

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